Delayed Blogging

Well, damn the marriage breakdown - its been a while since being able to get back onto my pc and the internet in order to regain some semblances of normality. Unfortunately for me, the other half saw fit to allege an assault on her (she fell over), and i was then told in no uncertain terms by HM Constabulary not to return home for a while. That was 21st December.

Unfortunately (also) i have been worried about the possibility of a reoccurance of the allegations - especially with them being false (and proven with no further action being taken against me), so much so i have been forced to stay with family for my own safety.

I can see how getting me out will leave the house open for her to take it, which in normal circumstances would be quite a good move - except in this case, its a council property and i am the sole tenant!

Now, what has become quite a theme, which some more observant people will have seen is a trend in life, that the Law is a complete Ass. I have had conflicting and confusing advice from various quarters, namely my housing society and several highly paid lawyers.

On the one hand, tenancy law says i am safe and she should "move out", easier said than done. As far as matrimonial law is concerned there is every chance she could get a Judge to give her my tenancy! However, the difficulty has been no one can say for sure what is right or wrong.

If you're getting divorced at the moment, my thoughts are with you because the whole thing just seems to stitch up a guy to end up paying for the lot when the other party are just as to blame for the breakup. Luckily we had no children to worry about in all the legal mumbojumbo.

Keep watching for developments. At least i can get on my pc now.